April 2023: the 9 of Cups Reversed
finding fulfillment: navigating the energy of the 9 of cups reversed
Happy April, magic makers. This month’s card is the 9 of Cups reversed, which hits at just the right time. The Libra Full Moon comes to us on April 5, launching us into 6 weeks of intense, enlightening experiences.
The 9 of Cups reversed can be a challenging card to receive right before this period of intensity, as it suggests feelings of dissatisfaction or unfulfillment despite having achieved one's goals. If you are feeling this way, please know that you are not alone.
The advice given by this card is to take a moment to care for yourself and to reevaluate what truly brings you joy and fulfillment. What moves you? What drives you? What puts you on cloud nine?
This can be a difficult process, but it is essential for your well-being. Trust your intuition when making decisions and know that you are capable of making any necessary changes to live a more fulfilling life.
A few years ago, I would have scoffed at the phrase “trust your intuition.” I was raised in the patriarchal Catholic church. We were taught that our inner voices were wrong, sinful, unworthy, and that we should follow the teachings of others instead. It really drives a division into one’s relationship to self. It took a long time for me to get comfortable checking in with and trusting myself, so if my story sounds familiar to you, know that you’re not alone. I wanted to share a few easy tips to help build confidence in your inner voice right now:
Take a moment to breathe and be present in the now. This can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings, and better able to recognize your intuition’s voice when it speaks to you.
Pay attention to how your body feels. Notice any physical sensations and how they relate to different situations. If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to trust that unapologetically.
Think back to times when you followed your intuition and it turned out well. Remember those positive experiences and remind yourself that you have the ability to trust your intuition.
Start small, and make it a daily practice. Try trusting your intuition in small decisions and see where it leads you. As you build confidence in that inner voice that comes through, you’ll feel more comfortable following it in bigger decisions, too.
Remember, true happiness and fulfillment come from within, not from external achievements. Take the time to reflect and make the changes you need to live a life that is authentic and fulfilling. You are worthy of this care and attention, and by prioritizing your own well-being, you will be better equipped to help those around you.
So, if you find yourself feeling the energy of the 9 of Cups Reversed over the next few weeks, take a deep breath, and know that you are on a path of self-discovery and growth. Trust yourself, trust the process, and know that you are deserving of a life filled with joy and fulfillment. You got this.
And even if you don’t, remember, April showers bring May flowers, anyway.